Jan and Els – the story of a couple who shared euthanasia

The common euthanasia of couples in the Netherlands is increasingly appearing in public debate. Is the growing number of "duoeutanasia" a sign of times or an ethical challenge?

Euthanasia in Netherlands

Netherlands as the first country in the world legalized euthanasia as early as 2002. The decision must be voluntary and suffering – physical or mental – unbearable and without prospects for improvement. There are also cases of double euthanasia, the so-called duoeutanasia, where the couple choose to leave together.

More and more couples decide to euthanize

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  • In 2023 the Netherlands was reported 33 cases of double euthanasia, and in 2022 – 29. For comparison, in 2019 such cases were 17, which shows a regular increase.
  • Zdarza się, że doctor rodzinny odmawia przeprowadzenia procedury – wówczas pary szukają pomocy w specjalistycznych klinikach eutanazyjnych.
  • Officially, each person is subject to an independent, strict assessment by two doctors. It is necessary to exclude peer pressure and confirm compliance with legal criteria.

What is the euthanasia procedure for couples?

Key legal requirements

  • Each partner must voluntarily and fully consciously submit a separate request for euthanasia.
  • Doctors judge each case separately for suffering and lack of negotiations for improvement.
  • It makes sure that the decision does not come from momentary pressure or emotion.

Motivations and dilemmas

Many older couples who have lived together for decades want to "go away together," including an expression of common life and love to the end. However, the medical system warns that situations where both partners suffer the same, at the same time, are very rare.

Els van Leeningen and Jan Faber

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John (70 years) and Els (71 years) were married almost all their lives. They met in kindergarten and have since been inseparable. They loved to be on the move – for years they lived on boats and in a motorhome, traveling around the Netherlands. Els was teacher in primary school, Jan athlete and coach, later ship operator. For years they lived together and raised a son.

Jan with his son 1982. Photo: bbc.com

However, Health They began to suffer more and more: Jan, former hockey player, suffered from chronic back painEls struggled with Dementia and major communication difficulties.

Elsa in 1968. Photo: bbc.com

Małżeństwo nigdy nie chciało, by o ich życiu decydowały choroby, ani by ostatnie lata były pasmem cierpienia i uzależnienia od innych. Oboje wspólnie podjęli decyzję o eutanazji, kiedy ich doctor rodzinny refused This procedure – they have applied to a mobile euthanasia clinic. In the case of couples, doctors must ensure that each partner chooses to leave completely alone and the decision is not the result of the influence of the other person.

Jan and Elsa were married in 1975. Photo: bbc.com

Eventually, John and Els were approved for a fatal procedure and died together June 3, 2024. They said goodbye before they died at the last dinner together.

The euthanasia of couples in the Netherlands is legal but very strictly controlled. The increase in common requests for euthanasia shows a changing social approach to death, but also raises questions about the limits of freedom and responsibility of doctors and states. Will the euthanasia of couples become one of the regular elections in liberal countries in the future – time will show.

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